What if?


What if?

I have always admired those individuals with a remarkable drive and determination—a relentless pursuit of their goals. But as I observe people around me, I cannot help but wonder why some remain stagnant, content with what is readily available. And so, I find myself pondering, what is it that holds them back? What compels them to settle? In these moments of reflection, I realise the answer lies in the powerful grip of fear—the fear of venturing into the unknown, the fear of embracing uncertainty.

Whenever I encounter change or find myself in uncomfortable situations, my mind starts ringing alarm bells, interpreting it as a threat. But here's what I've come to realise—both possibilities and opportunities often appear daunting at first because they require me to step outside of my comfort zone. It's that initial discomfort that I must learn to embrace and push through if I want to grow.

The truth is, I've always been just one decision away from a completely different life. But more often than not, fear grips me tightly, preventing me from taking that leap. I've finally come to understand that my purpose on this planet is not just to survive but to thrive—to tap into my strengths and unlock my true potential.

It's high time I unleashed the hidden potential I've been hoarding within myself, afraid to let it see the light of day. I now comprehend that the world holds something magnificent for me, something that can help me flourish. All I need is the courage to walk the path of uncertainty and embrace what lies ahead.

Regret doesn't come from the choices I've made in the past; it stems from the opportunities I let slip through my fingers—the decisions I was too afraid to pursue. I've learned that every decision, given enough time, reveals its purpose. But it's the decisions I backed away from—the chances I didn't take, the moments I failed to stand up for myself and seize my power—that haunt me. By shying away from those choices, I closed myself off from the endless possibilities that awaited me.

This lesson has left an indelible mark on my soul, constantly reminding me to ask myself, "What if…”

What if this turns out better than I ever imagined?

What if this decision leads me to a life of fulfilment and pride?

What if it brings me inner peace?

What if it fills my heart with boundless joy and abundance?

What if it actually works out?

What if it becomes the best decision I've ever made for myself?

What if it propels my personal growth?

What if it teaches me invaluable lessons?

What if it opens doors to countless opportunities and limitless possibilities?

What if it transforms me into the best version of myself?

I am not saying everything will go smoothly once you take that decision because it will not, and that’s okay. Because when you choose to explore the realm of possibilities, you'll find the strength within you to keep going. Inspiration and motivation will become your faithful companions, igniting a fire within that propels you relentlessly towards your goals.


So, I urge you to be brave and ask yourself, "What if?" Because even if there's a mere 1% chance that something might work out, dare to be that 1%. Remember the timeless words of Abraham Lincoln, who said, "The best way to predict your future is to create it.”

Maria xx